All right, Dan The Myth®, you can pick yourself up off the floor now.
On Sunday Sen. Barack Obama spoke at a church in Chicago. While much of the speech contained the typical liberal talking points and platitudes that righties like me would expect, his segment about fathers was spot on. Here are the key parts from that Father’s Day Speech [full text here]:
Of all the rocks upon which we build our lives, we are reminded today that family is the most important. And we are called to recognize and honor how critical every father is to that foundation. They are teachers and coaches. They are mentors and role models. They are examples of success and the men who constantly push us toward it.
But if we are honest with ourselves, we’ll admit that what too many fathers also are is missing – missing from too many lives and too many homes. They have abandoned their responsibilities, acting like boys instead of men. And the foundations of our families are weaker because of it.
You and I know how true this is in the African-American community. We know that more than half of all black children live in single-parent households, a number that has doubled – doubled – since we were children. We know the statistics – that children who grow up without a father are five times more likely to live in poverty and commit crime; nine times more likely to drop out of schools and twenty times more likely to end up in prison. They are more likely to have behavioral problems, or run away from home, or become teenage parents themselves. And the foundations of our community are weaker because of it.
How many times in the last year has this city lost a child at the hands of another child? How many times have our hearts stopped in the middle of the night with the sound of a gunshot or a siren? How many teenagers have we seen hanging around on street corners when they should be sitting in a classroom? How many are sitting in prison when they should be working, or at least looking for a job? How many in this generation are we willing to lose to poverty or violence or addiction? How many? [...]
But we also need families to raise our children. We need fathers to realize that responsibility does not end at conception. We need them to realize that what makes you a man is not the ability to have a child – it’s the courage to raise one. [...]
I say this knowing that I have been an imperfect father – knowing that I have made mistakes and will continue to make more; wishing that I could be home for my girls and my wife more than I am right now. I say this knowing all of these things because even as we are imperfect, even as we face difficult circumstances, there are still certain lessons we must strive to live and learn as fathers – whether we are black or white; rich or poor; from the South Side or the wealthiest suburb.
The first is setting an example of excellence for our children – because if we want to set high expectations for them, we’ve got to set high expectations for ourselves. It’s great if you have a job; it’s even better if you have a college degree. It’s a wonderful thing if you are married and living in a home with your children, but don’t just sit in the house and watch “SportsCenter” all weekend long. That’s why so many children are growing up in front of the television. As fathers and parents, we’ve got to spend more time with them, and help them with their homework, and replace the video game or the remote control with a book once in awhile. That’s how we build that foundation. [...]
When you’re right, you’re right, even when you’re Barack Obama. But hey, even a stopped clock is right twice a day.
But remember when the outspoken Bill Cosby expressed many of these sentiments in the past? He was lambasted by many in the black community for “airing the blacks community’s dirty laundry” or for pointing the finger only at poor blacks for their plight, rather than on society as a whole. In response to Obama’s speech, there are some in the media and blogosphere debating whether he was addressing only black men, or all men. Looking back at his words, I would say he was addressing American men in general, but black men in particular. Black illegitimacy is embarrassingly high at an upwards of 70%. Think about that: 7 out of 10 black children are born out of wedlock; illegitimate children of whites is significantly lower, but still in the double digits.
Of course, if Obama was singling out black men only, the question that arises on the left side is whether his comments were racist. Why would it be? It’s an inconvenient truth, but a truth nonetheless: there’s runaway illegitimacy in the black community. Charging someone (even other blacks like Bill Cosby, Thomas Sowell, Walter Williams, or Larry Elder) with racism for pointing that out doesn’t help solve the problem, but only distracts from the issue.
Incidentally, Obama went right back to being senseless liberal when he let blowhard extraordinaire Al Gore take the podium Monday in Detroit give him his endorsement. As the late great George Harrison once crooned, all things must pass.
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